now my dad passed away

 
fbf6751
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now my dad passed away

[Post New]by fbf6751 on Mar 5, 17 10:44 PM
how much grief can one person take as you all know my mom passed away 12/18 and now its happened again my dad was found dead in his home on 3/4 , I now will have no time to play for at least a month , I will check in a few times or not

Fred (Lortoc)(Zendoc)

 
AnnaDownes01
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Re:now my dad passed away

[Post New]by AnnaDownes01 on Mar 5, 17 11:03 PM
My condolences to you Fred. I know it seems like you are in the depths of despair now but, speaking from my own experience, which was very similar to yours in many ways, you will come out the other end. It will take a while but you have your friends in the forum swamping you with thoughts and prayers.

 
Angeli64
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[Post New]by Angeli64 on Mar 5, 17 11:11 PM
All love and thoughts to you Fred..

Angeli


 
playingthegame
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[Post New]by playingthegame on Mar 5, 17 11:27 PM
profound sympathy and condolences to a fellow player

 
1blazer1
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Re:now my dad passed away

[Post New]by 1blazer1 on Mar 5, 17 11:32 PM
Fred, I am so terribly sorry to hear about your dad. What a terrible blow for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

DeeDee

 
80plus
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[Post New]by 80plus on Mar 6, 17 12:22 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May precious memories of your parents replace the sorrow in your heart.

me1one

 
SA__
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[Post New]by SA__ on Mar 6, 17 12:34 AM
So sorry to hear this. It is so hard to deal with so great a loss twice in such a short time.

Thinking of you,
Love SA

 
iwik1
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[Post New]by iwik1 on Mar 6, 17 2:07 AM
My heartfelt sympathy and condolences to you Fred!

What can one say at a time like this to ease the burden?

Not a lot, as the pain is so raw, but please never lose sight of the memories that you have as they can't be taken away from you and they help to ease the loss.

I went through this a few years ago and thought I would never survive, but here I am.

The pain is still there, but lessens as each day and year goes by.

All my love and thoughts to you in this sad time.

Chris

 
Vstromval
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[Post New]by Vstromval on Mar 6, 17 2:50 AM
Stay strong. My thoughts are for you at this sad time.

 
aussie_Dot
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[Post New]by aussie_Dot on Mar 6, 17 3:45 AM
Fred, I am so sorry to hear this news. Having recently lost my husband, I can understand your heartbreak. But you are stronger than you think. Take the time to grieve and remember your friends here in the forum & on the game will support you with prayers and wishes.

Here is a little something that has resonated with me. Taken from the poem "When We Remember" author Unknown.

You can shed tears that they are gone
or you can smile because they had lived.

You can remember them and only that they're gone
or you can cherish their memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
or you can do what they'd want:
smile,
open your eyes,
and go on.

My heartfelt condolences to you Fred.

Dot

 
napoeon
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[Post New]by napoeon on Mar 6, 17 4:00 AM
Aw! Fred ......we don’t know how to heal your pain but wish we could.
My most sincere condolences, may your memories give you peace and comfort.

Alexandr@

 
El62
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Re:now my dad passed away

[Post New]by El62 on Mar 6, 17 4:06 AM
thinking about you.
take your time to say your goodbyes and keep the good memories in your heart.
Elly

 

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[Post New]by FreakieFaerie on Mar 6, 17 4:40 AM
Fred

I am so sorry you have lost another so soon.

My prayers and thoughts are with you.

As you know your MC family are here to support you.




 
gamelover57
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[Post New]by gamelover57 on Mar 6, 17 5:08 AM
Love and prayers, Fred. My heart breaks for you. It's hard but take it from one who knows, you will get through this. My mother died 7 years ago and I miss her every day but I remember her and I smile because we had such good times together. Take your time and heal. Thinking of you and praying for you.
Raven of GA

 

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[Post New]by lanky46musician on Mar 6, 17 5:17 AM
My husband and dad passed away only a month apart. The first year seemed to go by in a fog, because of the shock. To me, the second year was harder. I hope you have lots of friends and family around you and know that all your MC friends are sending you their prayers and condolences. Stay strong and come back only when you feel up to it.

Keeping you in my prayers,
DeeJay46

 
AuntieRoo
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[Post New]by AuntieRoo on Mar 6, 17 5:35 AM
Dear Fred,
My heart breaks for you at this very sad time I wish I could hug the pain away.
Look at each star tonight & think of them as all your MC friends trying to ease your pain.

 

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[Post New]by Gamegirl1957 on Mar 6, 17 7:25 AM
Dearest Fred, so very sorry for your loss. There really is nothing one can say to help your feelings, just know you are not alone. Take the time you need to grieve. I lost Mom last year, and my father said yesterday, I can't wait to be with that girl again, as he held her photo. I think this happens often where a couple just find it hard to "be without" their mate. A true testament to their love! I hope this will give you a glimmer of contentment to know they are together again. Take care, and be well, let your heart carry wonderful memories and thoughts. If you need some cheer, stop by the castle, I can see you lots of support with your "castle" family. Again, sorry for your loss.

 
mamarose1900
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Re:now my dad passed away

[Post New]by mamarose1900 on Mar 6, 17 7:59 AM
I'm so sorry, Fred. It's hard enough when one's parents pass years apart, as mine did. I can't imagine what it's like when they're so close together. Hugs! I'll keep you and your loved ones in my prayers. Even if you're not a praying person, it can't hurt.

The castle will be here, ready for stormin', when you're ready to come back.

 
sbaker2318
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Re:now my dad passed away

[Post New]by sbaker2318 on Mar 6, 17 8:06 AM
OH Fred! I am SO sorry!

 
crusader50
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Re:now my dad passed away

[Post New]by crusader50 on Mar 6, 17 8:15 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. As others have said take time to grieve and cherish the memories you have of your parents.

Cindy/crusadercat

 
 
 
 
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